the shorts were a sad disappointment. My problem is my big fat butt. Not only is it big, it sticks out. If I find a pair that goes over my behind, the waste is too big. And if it is the right size for my waste, it's way too tight on my butt to where i wouldn't be able to sit without splitting them. the shorts, not my butt. I've tried hip huggers, but those go too low in the back, so forget about sitting without exposing far more than i'm comfortable with. So i'm forced to wear shorts with either alastic or draw strings. Someone suggested wearing a belt. Problem there is the waste is so big it bunches too much. Or maybe the style is to be so tight that you can't breathe. Tell me I'm not the only one with this problem?
And bras are just not designed for a person my size. Smallest I've found is a 32, but I really need a 30 because my frame is very slim. but the only 30's I've found are either training or AA's which are way too small in the cup department. Wish I had the money to get my clothes and shoes tailor made. But i guess I'll have to settle with alterations, though not sure how that works with bras.